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A Real Pain


Two cousins travel to Poland to visit the childhood home of their late grandmother. One of the cousins is a real pain as well as in pain. We enjoyed the film – it’s occasionally funny – but I wouldn’t recommend it.
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Seen on a walk

A walk from Westhumble up to the North Downs then down to Dorking











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A frosty morning




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2024 recommended books


There were 22 highly recommended fiction delights
- The Long Drop – Denise Mina [Based on true events in 1950’s Glasgow, a sometimes confusing and very grim tale of gangsters and serial killings]
- Natural Flights of the Human Mind – Clare Morrall [A second(!) re-read. Centred on a lighthouse, this is a wonderful tale of grief]
- Idaho – Emily Ruskovich [A re-read from the shelves. Superb tale of family and tragedy set in rural America]
- My Policeman – Bethan Roberts [Fabulous love story set in 1950’s Brighton. A re-read from the shelves]
- The Child Finder – Rene Denfeld [A young woman deals with her past by trying to find missing children. A terrific read]
- Under Your Skin – Sabine Durrant [Female TV presenter discovers a woman’s body whilst out on a run. Terrific. A re-read from the shelves]
- Disclaimer – Renee Knight [A re-read – same opinion. Terrific psychological thriller centred around a family secret]
- My Absolute Darling – Gabriel Tallent [A re-read from the shelves. A monster of a father and his unfortunate daughter. What a tale!]
- The 500 – Matthew Quirk [Page-turning political/business tale of corruption becomes a bonkers thriller. Exciting stuff]
- Appointment With Yesterday – Celia Fremlin [A feeble wife fights to survive with a new identity. A wonderful read from the wonderful CF]
- Seven Lean Years - Celia Fremlin [Families, sisters, a drawn-out wedding engagement and a tense, fabulous ending]
- The Man In The Gray Flannel Suit – Sloan Wilson [A young family man in 1950s America navigates business and life. A fabulous read]
- Cubicles – Camika Spencer [The lives of three black women working in a call-centre. Office politics and relationships. Superb]
- Castle Of Water – Dane Huckelbridge [Washed up on a tiny, remote island, a man and a woman endeavour to survive. A fabulous read, I read it in a day. ]
- Divorcing Jack – Colin Bateman [Belfast journalist falls out with his wife and runs into trouble with terrorists and criminals. Terrific thriller]
- A Rather English Marriage – Angela Lambert [Two elderly widowers cope with loneliness. Wonderful. Another fabulous AL tale.]
- A Thread of Violence – Mark O’Connell [Superb study of an Irish toff who, when his money ran out, murdered two people]
- Roman Stories – Jhumpa Lahiri [Fabulous short stories about the lives of inhabitants of Rome]
- A Whole Life – Robert Seethaler [The life story of a man in the mountains. A short, wonderful novel. One to be re-read]
- The Catch – Mick Herron [Comical, spy novella. A most enjoyable short read]
- Adventures in Modern Marriage – William Nicholson [Three marriages – a charming, interesting read. I liked it a lot]
- The Intrusions – Stav Sherez [Terrific tech-themed, serial killer crime novel]
and 14 highly recommended non-fiction delights
- Somewhere Towards the End – Diana Athill [A retired editor in her 90s writes of her life and becoming and being old. Terrific]
- The Work I Did – Pomsel & Hansen [“A memoir of the secretary to Goebbels” + how it relates to today’s extremists and demagogues. Fascinating]
- The Secret Life Of John Le Carré – Adam Sisman [Fascinating look at Le Carré’s many extra-marital affairs and how they may have influenced his novels]
- Too Much Information – Dave Gorman [Many laugh out loud moments in these mainly internet, pet peeves]
- Going Infinite – Michael Lewis [The collapse of the cryptocurrency exchange FTX and its founder, Sam Bankman-Fried. Difficult, yet absorbing]
- Freezing Order – Bill Browder [An astonishing exposé of Putin’s money laundering and killings. I read it in a day]
- Politics On the Edge – Rory Stewart [One of the few, very-likeable Conservative politicians, writes of his time as an MP. Brilliant]
- Will You Read This, Please? – Joanna Cannon(Ed) [Superb collection of experiences of real people with a mental illness]
- How They Broke Britain – James O’Brien [9 horrible Tories (plus Corbyn and Farage) are scathingly skewered]
- How Westminster Works (and Why it Doesn’t) – Ian Dunt [Brilliant analysis of our dreadful parliamentary democracy]
- Hillbilly Elegy – JD Vance [Wonderful memoir of the family of a Kentucky hillbilly]
- 1000 Years of Joys and Sorrow – Ai Weiwei [The artist’s terrifically interesting memoir of his and his father’s life]
- Built on a Lie – Owen Walker [“The Rise and Fall of Neil Woodford”. A fascinating look at the investment business. One to be re-read]
- The Last Man in Russia – Oliver Bullough [Author travels through Russia in the footsteps of a dissident priest]
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Ticket To Ride @ Christmas


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Ricky Jay

Ricky Jay was an American actor and magician (June 26, 1946 – November 24, 2018).
In one of my favourite films, Things Change, Ricky Jay has a small part with some memorable David Mamet lines. The film opens as follows:
Shoe-shop owner: “May I help you?”
Silver (Ricky Jay): “A friend of ours would like to speak to you this evening.”
Shoe-shop owner: “I just shine shoes.”
Silver (Ricky Jay): “There’ll be shoes there.”I can hear Ricky Jay’s voice as I read these lines. I love this film but it’s rarely shown on TV and I’ve never been able to find a DVD. I do, however, have the book of the screenplay, and what a joy it is.
Ricky Jay was best known as a magician rather than as an actor. I found this wonderful little drama that combines the two.
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All We Imagine as Light


A slow but interesting and enjoyable Indian film about the lives of three women living in Mumbai.
We were the only ones watching at the newish, local independent cinema, though there were two others up until about the half-way point! It was our first visit using my membership credits, so we were entitled to free popcorn. We ate a bit less than half a tub, accidently spilled some whilst leaving, and discarded the rest. We’re the wrong age-group for popcorn!
Before leaving the cinema we gave some feedback to one of the staff regarding the deafening adverts, trailers and music at the end of the film.

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A week in Scarborough

One of the best visits we’ve had to Scarborough! The November weather was better than we expected apart from the blizzard and snowfall as we left our apartment for the return train journey home. Two cliff-top walks and a bus ride to Whitby, two galleries and a museum, plus a trip to the Railway Museum in York.
Scarborough














A walk from Ravenscar to Robin Hoods Bay
A bus from Scarborough to Ravenscar and a coffee in the hotel before some demanding downs and ups and some disturbing cliff-top collapses – see the images of the split in the cliff which looks ready to collapse. An OK lunch in the hotel at the top of the hill in Robin Hoods Bay (the peas were grossly under-cooked!) before catching a bus back to Scarborough.












A walk from Scalby to Scarborough
A bus to Scalby and a quick coffee before the cliff-top walk back to Scarborough with some stunning views. Spot the fishermen on the rocks in the 2nd picture and the cyclist braving the cliff edge in the 3rd picture.






Whitby
A bus ride to and from Whitby.








York National Railway Museum
A train ride to York. It was bitterly cold and busy in York but the Railway Museum was impressive – I’m of the generation that appreciates steam engines!










Scarborough – Two very different art galleries
Two small galleries. Old paintings and modern images.












Scarborough Rotunda museum
A stunning, small museum with some OK fossils.








Leftovers

The lift in Scarborough 
View from the lift 
A wonderful Scarborough bookshop needs some work on its signage… 
We’re in the North! 
A couple of grumpy old men 
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London Wetlands Centre

It was a miserable and grey day for our visit to the London Wetlands Centre near Barnes. A disappointing visit for our German bird-watcher friend who was expecting something wilder. Afterwards, a walk into Barnes for a very late lunch at an extremely pleasant café/bar, The Nest. There were hassles with the trains home.







