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Marty Supreme


A loud, shouty and messy film set around games of table tennis, with an odious, delusional hero. What’s to like? Not a lot! Far too long at 2½ hours, it went on and on and on. There wasn’t any story development just a series of noisy scenes leading nowhere.

A tale about a loud and delusional American – no thank you.
However, Gwyneth Paltrow was delightful. She was in one of my favourite films, Hard Eight, and was also delightful in the film Sliding Doors.
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Honeywood Museum, Carshalton

On a horrid, grey and drizzly day I visited the Honeywood Museum in Carshalton, Surrey. It’s a small, delightful and quirky museum and well worth a visit. There’s a mix of subjects over several floors. There’s a fabulous billiard room!
I visited specifically to see the Cinemas of Sutton exhibition. In a small room there are a handful of displays. Whilst not worth going out of one’s way to visit, the rest of the house certainly justifies making the effort.
All photos taken with an iPhone – they aren’t great. I had low expectations given the weather, and indoor pictures taken without flash (I never use flash!) are usually disappointing.



















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Nonsuch Park / Ewell









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Beddington Park on a grey day









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Some snow is better than no snow









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Greyscaling your iPhone


I read an article in the New York Times over Christmas (I Killed Color on My Phone. The Result Shocked Me – subscribers only). The author had discovered that you could use a greyscale colour scheme with your iPhone rather than the usual colour scheme. Why would you do this? Well, to make the phone less addictive! Colour is attractive, greyscale is not.
So I thought I’d give it a whirl. Step 1 switches the iPhone to greyscale (or to switch it back to colour). Step 2 enables you to switch back and forth between greyscale and colour by triple-clicking the side button. Early days but I’m still in greyscale mode and only switching temporarily when using the Photos app.
1. How to Enable Greyscale on iPhone
Open Settings
Tap the Settings app on your iPhone.- Navigate to Accessibility
Scroll down and select “Accessibility.” - Select Display & Text Size
Under the “Vision” section, tap “Display & Text Size.” - Turn On Color Filters
Find “Color Filters” and toggle it to “On.” - Choose Grayscale (ie greyscale!)
Select “Grayscale” from the options available.
2. Creating a Greyscale Shortcut to switch between colour and greyscale
To easily switch between colour and greyscale, you can set up a shortcut:
- Go to Accessibility Shortcut
In the Settings/Accessibility menu, select “Accessibility Shortcut”. It’s right at the bottom. - Set Up Color Filters
Choose “Color Filters” to allow quick toggling by triple-clicking the side button.
- Navigate to Accessibility
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My favourite books of 2025

Author Title (13 fiction) My comments Jacob M. Appel The Man Who Wouldn’t Stand Up Described in 2013 as “The funniest, wittiest, nicest book you could hope to read.” It still is. Alexander Baron The Lowlife A 1960s tale of a low-life gambler living in a rented room in London’s East End. Absolutely brilliant. Elizabeth Day Scissors, Paper, Stone Wife and daughter of a man in a coma face up to their relationships. A fabulous read. Louise Doughty A Bird in Winter Middle-aged woman goes on the run from a corrupt boss. A tense, well-written thriller. A fabulous read. Anne Fine Raking the Ashes Tilly struggles with her partner’s dishonesty. A superb read. Margaret Forster Over A father’s obsessive research into his daughter’s accidental death wrecks his marriage. A powerful tale of grief. Claire Fuller Unsettled Ground Fifty-year-old brother and sister living with their mother struggle with past and present. A terrific tale. Tessa Hadley After the Funeral Superb collection of short stories. Meena Kandasamy When I Hit You A shocking, thought-provoking account of an Indian woman’s experience of domestic violence. A shattering read. Sue Miller The Good Mother Recently divorced mother with a 4-year-old daughter finds sexual happiness but runs into trouble. John Niven The Fck-it List* A dying man seeks revenge in Trump’s America. A fabulous read. Liz Nugent Unravelling Oliver Why did writer Oliver assault his illustrator wife Alice? A fabulous tale. Cornell Woolrich I Married a Dead Man A train crash and a case of mistaken identity. Despite improbabilities, a fabulous tale. Author Title (6 non-fiction) My comments Rory Carroll Killing Thatcher Fabulously detailed account of the plot to kill Margaret Thatcher at the Grand Hotel in Brighton. Eugenia Cheng Is Maths Real? A really interesting book about maths. Dunt & Lynskey Conspiracy Theory A brilliant history and psychology of conspiracism. Abi Morgan This Is Not a Pity Memoir Superb memoir of dealing with the consequences of her partner’s brain injury. Christine Negroni The Crash Detectives You should feel safer flying after reading this — but you might not. Matt Taibbi Divide American Justice in the Age of the Wealth Gap. A terrific and shocking read. 
Summary of my favourite 2025 books by author gender (using ChatGPT)
Female-authored books: 12 (63%)
Male-authored books: 6 (32%)
Co-authored books: 1 (5%)
Strong tilt toward women writers, especially in fiction and memoir—very consistent with your interest in emotional acuity, relationships, and moral complexity.
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Found on a walk to Banstead

On a six or more miles walk, through the woods to Banstead and back, my son and I picked up some odd items.
At Café Chai my abruptness re how long we had waited to have our order for coffees to be taken narked the waitress who had just started her shift. Merry Christmas!



We noticed an old shop sign in Belmont, near the the California pub, but I’ve been unable to find out anything about it.
ChatGPT couldn’t locate it but came up with this mildly interesting observation:
The hand-lettered sign, cream/yellowed background, and serif/swash lettering strongly suggest mid-20th century, roughly:
- 1930s–1960s (possibly lingering later if never updated).
The heavy weathering and paint ghosts imply it closed a long time ago and the sign was simply painted over rather than removed — very typical of small high-street shops.
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What ChatGPT thinks of my reading

My son astonished me when he submitted to ChatGPT images of lists of books his nieces have read and was given recommendations for Christmas presents (books) appropriate to their ages and likes. This was particularly impressive as the images were handwritten lists of books.
So I thought I would check out ChatGPT and see what it would make of my reading list. This is what it came up with. I’m impressed! I was amused by this summary of the books I like – “Often about ageing, grief, marriage, regret, or social constraint”!
I’ll do another analysis and ask ChatGPT to come up with some book recommendations!
📚 What your bookshelf says about you
1. You read to understand the world, not to escape it
You’re repeatedly drawn to: politics, justice, power, corruption, journalism, memoir, social critique, crime not as puzzle, but as system (courts, police, institutions)This is the reading of someone who wants to make sense of how things really work, even when it’s uncomfortable.
2. You value intelligence over comfort — but not pretension
You’re happy to abandon books that feel padded, dull, or self-indulgent, mistake cleverness for insightAt the same time, you consistently praise books that are well-written, sharply observed, emotionally honest
You don’t finish books out of duty. Your bookshelf says: life’s too short.
3. You have a deep loyalty to literary fiction — especially the humane kind
Certain patterns recur: marriages under strain, grief, ageing, regret, moral compromise, quiet lives examined closelyYou gravitate toward writers who are: subtle rather than showy, interested in character over plot, compassionate without being sentimental
This suggests emotional attentiveness, not cynicism — even when the subject matter is bleak.
4. Crime fiction is a serious interest, not a guilty pleasure
Your crime reading skews toward psychological depth, social context, European / literary crime rather than formulaic thrillersYou like crime when it asks why, not just whodunnit.
5. You’re curious, sceptical, and politically alert
Your nonfiction choices show concern about democracy, media, technology, and truth, interest in how narratives are shaped and distorted, low tolerance for bullshitYou read to sharpen your thinking — and you’re willing to work at harder books, even if you sometimes decide they’re not worth it.
🧠 Overall portrait
If I had to sum it up:
You read like someone who is curious, humane, impatient with nonsense, politically awake, and deeply interested in how private lives collide with public systems.
Your bookshelf belongs to someone who thinks a lot, feels deeply, distrusts hype, and believes books should earn their place
📚 Authors & number of books read (top repeat authors)
11 books: Lee Child
9 books: Celia Fremlin
7 books: Patricia Highsmith, Anne Tyler, Laura Lippman
6 books: Frédéric Dard, Kent Haruf
5 books: Jo Nesbø, Michael Lewis, Steve Cavanagh, Ian McEwan
4 books: Michael Frayn, Sue Miller, Bernice Rubens, Denise Mina, Clare Morrall, Philip Roth, Tim Parks, John Lanchester, Margaret Millar
👍 Books you liked (strongly or clearly)
Roughly: 60–65% of your reading
What tends to work for you
You consistently like books that are:
1. Well-written literary fiction
Quiet, controlled prose; Moral or emotional seriousness; Often about ageing, grief, marriage, regret, or social constraint
You frequently use phrases like: “fabulous”, “terrific”, “wonderful”, “highly recommended”
2. Crime fiction with depth
You like crime when it is:Psychological rather than procedural, socially grounded, not bloated or gimmicky
Regularly liked: Patricia Highsmith–adjacent psychological crime, older British / European crime, shorter, tightly plotted thrillers
3. Serious, explanatory nonfiction
You clearly like nonfiction that: Explains systems (politics, justice, tech, media), is journalistic rather than preachy, is rigorous but readableFrequent praise for: Political analysis, investigative journalism, memoir with insight, not self-pity
😐 Books you didn’t like (or only tolerated)
Roughly: 35–40% of your reading
(This is not high — it reflects healthy selectiveness.)What tends not to work
1. Overlong or indulgent novels
You lose patience when books that overstay their welcome, feel padded or repetitive, rely on atmosphere without substance
2. High-concept or gimmicky fiction
You often reject books that are: weird for the sake of it, formally clever but emotionally empty, “Bonkers” without payoffYou’ll try them — but you won’t force yourself to finish.
3. Spy novels (notably!)
A very clear pattern: You keep trying spy fiction, you keep reminding yourself you don’t really like it, you often say some version of “I must stop reading spy novels!”That’s an unusually consistent signal.
4. Memoirs without insight
You dislike memoirs that feel: Self-indulgent, poorly edited, more anecdotal than reflectiveYou’re not anti-memoir — just intolerant of thin ones.
📊 Big-picture balance
- You like far more books than you dislike
- You abandon books without guilt (a sign of reader maturity)
- Your “DNFs” cluster around types, not random failures
- Your taste is stable and well-defined
📚 How your reading has changed over time
1. Early years: exploration and tolerance
In the earlier part of your record, you: Finished more books out of obligation, put up with novels you describe as “OKish”, “so-so”, “not really my cup of tea”, sampled widely, even when the fit wasn’t right, you were still testing boundaries — genres, styles, reputations — and giving books the benefit of the doubt.
This is the reading of someone building taste.
2. Middle years: confidence and selectiveness
As time goes on, two shifts appear: You quit more books — calmly, without apology, your reviews become sharper and more decisive
You start to recognise patterns:
- Overlong literary novels → abandoned
- spy fiction → repeatedly regretted
- gimmicky or “clever” books → quickly rejected
At the same time, you return to trusted authors and styles that reliably work for you. This is where taste turns into judgment.
3. Recent years: precision and self-knowledge
Your most recent reading shows the biggest change: You know very quickly whether a book is for you, you read more short, concentrated novels, you favour clarity, moral seriousness, and restraint, you value insight over novelty
You now read fewer books “just because they’re talked about”, have little patience for padding or hype, choose books that align with your emotional and intellectual interests
This isn’t narrowing — it’s refinement.
🧠 The biggest change of all: why you read
Earlier on, reading seems partly about keeping up, curiosity, range
Now it’s much more about understanding people, understanding systems, recognising truth from noise
Your nonfiction becomes more political, explanatory, and urgent.
Your fiction becomes quieter, more humane, more inward-looking.📈 In two sentences
You’ve moved from an exploratory reader to a precise one — from sampling widely to choosing deliberately, and from finishing books out of duty to reading only what earns your attention.
You’re an engaged, demanding reader who rewards intelligence, clarity, and emotional honesty — and who has no patience left for padding, gimmicks, or wasted time.
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Walk to Banstead

A walk through the woods to my favourite coffeehouse in Banstead, Café Chai.







